Is Misyar marriage permissible? assim al hakeem fatwa

This is Asim Al-Hakim, trending again because of the Mohammed Hijab situation.
So I thought, let’s see what this celebrity is really saying.

He has no authority to override Allah’s divine structure or sell out the rights Allah gave to women.

This is pure distortion, and it needs to be rebutted clearly.

Misyar marriage — where a woman gives up her rights to housing, provision, and maintenance — is not sanctioned by the Qur’an.
It’s a man-made loophole designed to satisfy selfish desires while abandoning responsibilities.

Allah already laid out marriage duties clearly:

“Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has given one more strength than the other, and because they spend from their wealth.” (4:34)
A man’s role is tied to financial provision. Without it, he has no claim to marriage.

“Let those who cannot afford marriage remain chaste until Allah enriches them from His bounty.” (24:33)
If you can’t provide, you are commanded to wait — not to twist marriage rules.

“Do not take women by compulsion.” (4:19)
Taking advantage of a woman’s situation to have her waive her rights is exploitation, not righteousness.

“Do not consume one another’s wealth unjustly.” (2:188)
Marriage is not a transaction to satisfy urges without honoring duties.

Asim Al-Hakim, like many others, sells verses for profit — and Allah curses those who profit from religion.
They twist the faith and mislead those who don’t read the Qur’an directly.

Allah warns us:
“Have you seen the one who takes his own desires as his god?” (45:23)
And, “They have taken their rabbis and monks as lords besides Allah.” (9:31)
Following men who twist Allah’s commands is shirk.

The divine protection of women was designed by Allah’s structure.
It cannot be waived, sold, negotiated, or customized to fit men’s weaknesses.
The moment a woman gives up her Qur’anic rights, the marriage loses its integrity.

If you obey scholars who invent new rules against Allah’s structure, you are following men over Allah.

Marriage is a fortress of justice, maintenance, and honor — not a summer romance, not a side contract, not a business deal.
The Qur’an demands provision, responsibility, and sincerity — not loopholes for convenience.

Fear Allah — not men living off donations.
Follow the Qur’an — not trending fatwas.
Protect the honor of women — don’t exploit desperation under the cover of Shariah games.

And Allah knows best.

Just to clarify:
The Qur’an says it is a punishment to not sleep in your wife’s bed — not a favor. (4:34)
The Qur’an says you can reduce the mahr if agreed — not cancel provision or housing rights. (4:4)
Nowhere does Allah permit bypassing maintenance or housing your wife properly.

The moment you start cutting out Allah’s structure, you are not following divine law — you are building your marriage on rebellion.

A man must provide and house his wife to feel like a man.
And as a woman, you have a responsibility not to give men privileges they don’t deserve.
You are not doing anyone a favor by creating entitled, irresponsible men within the Ummah.

Your children will learn from what you normalize — not from what you say.

If they see a man sleeping with their mother while refusing to provide for her, they will learn it is okay to be a loser.
You are planting generational weakness and hypocrisy.

Do not sacrifice your children’s future for the sake of convenience.
Do not bring men into your life who disobey Qur’anic law.
Children learn Islam from your life — not your Instagram quotes.

Protect your dignity.
Protect your future.
Protect your deen.

And Allah is the best of judges.